It is
well-known fact all over the world that
building of the relationship between men and
Russian
women is a very difficult thing. In
different countries people have different
points of view concerning this question.
Russian brides differ from others, first
of all, by their beauty, of course and by
their serious attitude to dating,
relationships and marriage. That is why it
is very important for men to be patient and
not to hurry the events doing everything
step by step and building your relationship
brick by brick.
In the process of building relationships
psychologists pick out three stages. Lets
look at each of them.
Stage 1: Formal acquaintance
People just learn some information about
each other. It is very important to notice
that this information doesn't oblige both
people for anything. They shouldn't show
what they can in joint life, they shouldn't
prove their human value in this or that
quality. And if there is no any aversion you
may continue.
Stage 2: Emotionally significant
relations, intimacy based on common
interests, points of view, etc.
It isn't necessary to be a "psychological
twin" of your new friend. Your emotional
intimacy can be based on mutual learning -
accepting or declining some points of view,
some disputes. By the way, very often mutual
sympathy appears exactly as a result of
dispute, just like truth. The main thing is
absence of the real indifference, which is
done just for effect. For example, if
Russian
woman tries to sustain a pause in order
to show the pride.
Stage 3: Possible appearance of the
intimate or matrimonial relations
Speaking about these three stages, you
should remember that each of them mustn't
last for months and years. Everything
depends on the structure of your
personality, temperament, situation.
Moreover, if the first and especially the
second stage lasts for too long, people will
know each other excessively well. And very
often it leads to so called "fusion" of the
feelings.
So, don't hurry up to live and don't
hasten the relations. Everything is good in
its season, and if you hurry up now, you may
regret about it later... as this haste may
lead to destruction of the relations which
you have been building for so long time.
Just trust in fortune and let her make
everything like it should be!
